How To Elope in Pennsylvania: A Simple Step-by-Step Guide
Dreaming of a cozy, romantic elopement in Pennsylvania? As a wedding photographer, I've seen firsthand how eloping is an exciting, personal way to say "I do." Pennsylvania is full of gorgeous parks, historic spots, and city sights perfect for your special day.
Whether you're locals or planning a destination elopement, I'll guide you through the process.
1. Understanding Pennsylvania's Legal Requirements for Elopement
Before we get to the fun stuff, let's cover the legal bases. In Pennsylvania, you can pick up a marriage license from any county clerk's office without being a resident. Here's what you need to know:
Marriage License: You both need to apply together with photo IDs. After a three-day waiting period, you'll receive your license, which is valid for 60 days.
Witnesses: Pennsylvania offers self-uniting marriage licenses, so you might not need an officiant or witnesses. It's ideal for those wanting a truly intimate ceremony!
Fees: Be prepared to pay a fee for the marriage license; this varies by county, so check the exact amount in advance.
Officiant Requirements: Make sure your officiant is authorized to perform marriages in Pennsylvania.
2. Planning Your Elopement Day in Pennsylvania
Planning your elopement day is all about creating a seamless experience that's as stress-free as it is special. In Pennsylvania, where every season offers its own charm, you'll want to consider the little details that make a big difference.
Here's how to ensure everything runs smoothly:
Pick a Date: Season and weekday choices can affect costs and venue availability.
Keep It Cozy: The beauty of eloping is the small guest list. Invite just a few loved ones, or keep it intimate with just the two of you.
Good Timing: Schedule your ceremony when the lighting is best for photos – early morning or late afternoon.
Backup Plan: Always have a plan B for weather or other unexpected changes.
Dress Appropriately: Choose attire that suits your location and comfort, especially if you'll be outdoors.
Enjoy the Moment: Remember to take a breath and savor this special time together.
3. Choosing the Perfect Elopement Location
As your photographer, I can suggest many beautiful places to elope in Pennsylvania.
Whether you're after a rustic or urban setting, there's something for everyone:
Outdoor Beauty: The Pocono Mountains are stunning, and Ricketts Glen State Park has 22 waterfalls.
City Charm: Philadelphia's history and architecture or Pittsburgh's arts scene and bridges offer great backdrops.
Unique Spots: Consider exchanging vows at Cairnwood Estate or amidst Fonthill Castle's romantic ruins.
Lakeside Views: For a tranquil setting, consider the shores of Lake Wallenpaupack or the peaceful Pine Creek Gorge.
Historic Landmarks: Get hitched at one of Pennsylvania's historic landmarks like Gettysburg or Independence Hall for a touch of history.
Vineyards and Farms: Opt for a rustic vibe by eloping at a local vineyard or farm, with rolling hills as your backdrop.
State Parks: Explore Pennsylvania's state parks, like Hickory Run near the Poconos, for their unique landscapes and ideal settings for elopements.
Covered Bridges: Pennsylvania is known for its charming covered bridges. Consider the scenic covered bridge at Lancaster County Central Park for a quaint and picturesque ceremony.
4. Hiring the Right Vendors for Your Elopement
Teaming up with the right wedding pros can really make all the difference.
Here are a few vendors I recommend having for the ultimate elopement experience:
Photographer: That's me! I'll capture all the emotions and details of your day. Choose a photographer whose style you love.
Hair and Makeup: Professional stylists can help you look and feel your best on your big day.
Officiant: If you decide on a traditional ceremony, find an officiant who resonates with your vision.
Florist: A lovely bouquet and setup can make your day even more special. Local vendors can add Pennsylvania charm to your celebration.
Music: The perfect soundtrack can really set the tone for your ceremony, whether it's live music or a handpicked playlist. Consider choosing tunes that tell your story – like one of my couples did when her sister played the harp at their intimate micro wedding.
5. Making It Special: Personalizing Your Elopement
You want your elopement to reflect who you are as a couple.
Here are a few ideas on how you can make your Pennsylvania elopement as amazing as your love story:
Vows: Personal vows add a unique touch to your ceremony.
Themes: Pick themes that are meaningful to you, like something inspired by Pennsylvania’s Dutch country or autumn leaves.
Ceremony Rituals: Incorporate traditions or rituals that hold special meaning for you both.
Personal Touches: From custom rings to a picnic basket with your favorite treats, little details can make a big impact.
Adventure Together: Consider adding an activity you both love, like hiking or kayaking, to celebrate your union.
6. Capturing the Moment
I know you want the best wedding photos for your elopement.
Here are a few tips and ideas on what we can do to make it absolutely magical and memorable:
Scout Locations: We can visit the site beforehand to find the best photo spots!
Golden Hour: Aim for photos during golden hour for the most flattering light.
Props: A few simple props (ex. balloons, signs, champagne, a vintage car, candles) can add a playful element to your pictures.
Candid Shots: Encourage spontaneous photos to capture genuine moments.
First Look: Consider a 'first look' photo session to capture the excitement before the ceremony.
Post-Elopement Shoot: Plan for a post-elopement photo shoot in full wedding attire for more relaxed and creative images.
7. What to Do After You Elope
After you've tied the knot, it's time to celebrate and make it official!
Here's what to do next, from enjoying your first moments as a married couple to sharing the big news with everyone:
Celebrate: Enjoy a quiet dinner or a small party that suits your style.
Legal Stuff: File your marriage license as required in Pennsylvania.
Tell Everyone!: Announce your marriage with personalized cards or on social media.
Change of Name: If you're changing your name, start the process with your new marriage certificate.
Thank-You Notes: Send out thank-you notes to vendors and anyone who helped make your day special.
Reflect on Your Experience: Take time with your partner to reflect on the ceremony and write down your memories.
Your elopement in Pennsylvania can be as special as your own love story. With a little bit of planning and some creative ideas, it will turn into a day you'll never forget.
Think about it: your elopement is all about the two of you. It's a chance to celebrate your love in a way that feels just right. Whether you're saying your vows by a quiet lake or holding hands in a city park, these moments will become precious memories.
Ready to plan your dream elopement in Pennsylvania?
As a wedding photographer who loves capturing love stories, I'm here to help you grab every smile and sweet moment on camera. Let's work together to make sure your elopement photos are as amazing as your love for each other.
If you're excited to start planning, I'm ready to chat! Get in touch with me, and let's talk about how we can make your elopement truly yours.